How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . .How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand.
—Psalm 139:17–18
TODAY’S DARE
Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.
Okey Dokey, completed.
Done…sort of, I am out of town this week and called my Sweetie several times today just to see how she was doing…didn’t need a dare for that. However, I don’t think I asked her specifically if there was something I could do for her…but she did mention something she needs done…will take care of it when I get home. I thought the “dares” were going to be a lot more difficult. So far, I’m not sure if I would have done anything differently had I not been doing the Love Dare. Hopefully Bethany hasn’t noticed anything different yet…if she has then I haven’t been doing some of the most basic things that anybody in love would do for the person they love.
I just peeked ahead at tomorrow….may be a little bit more difficult…especially the “without attacking or justifying your behavior” part. Good luck! Hopefully non of us will have our feelings hurt too badly and we will all be able to listen intently and not just jump to defending ourselves.
BoB